When You Realise You’ve Sewn the Jumper Together Wrong
Progress often happens quietly and gradually, rather than in big dramatic moments.
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Nessa Hubbard
3/17/20262 min read


When You Realise You’ve Sewn the Jumper Together Wrong
I visited Cotehele House this weekend and the daffodils were everywhere.
There’s something about early spring that always makes me pause for a moment. The garden is still quiet in many ways, but small signs of change are beginning to appear. Things are slowly working their way into place again.
Knitting can feel a little like that sometimes. Progress often happens quietly and gradually, rather than in big dramatic moments.
I’ve been finishing a jumper this week. Or at least, attempting to finish it.
At one point I sat looking at it and realised something wasn’t quite right. The seams weren’t behaving as they should, and the shape felt slightly odd in my hands. After a moment of turning it over and looking more closely, I realised what I had done.
I had sewn the whole thing together wrong. So out came the needle again, and I carefully unpicked the seams and started again.
Years ago, that sort of moment would probably have felt disastrous. I might have wondered whether I’d ruined the project or assumed I’d made a mistake that couldn’t be fixed.
But knitting — and finishing work in particular — rarely behaves quite so dramatically. Most of the time the answer is simply to slow down, look carefully at the fabric, and work out what needs adjusting.
Sometimes that means dropping a stitch and repairing it. Sometimes it means undoing a few rows. And occasionally, it means unpicking a seam and sewing it again. None of those things are failures. They are simply part of the process of making something properly.
What I’ve noticed over the years is that the knitters who eventually feel comfortable with their projects aren’t the ones who never make mistakes. They’re the ones who learn to pause, look at the stitches, and calmly decide what to do next. That quiet consideration changes everything.
The jumper is now sewn together the right way round, and it already looks much happier for it.
And as usual, the moment of unpicking turned out not to be a disaster at all — just part of the work.
If you ever find yourself staring at your knitting and wondering what on earth has happened, you’re very welcome to book a session with me and we can look at it together. Often it only takes a few minutes of calmly reading the stitches to work out what’s going on and decide what to do next.
Nessa Hubbard
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